But as we talk a bit further a different picture emerges. One may be working 10 hour days and commuting an additional 3 hours; another hasn't slept for 6 months after giving birth, and at the same time she moved house, and her father had major heart surgery across the country; another has a new job -- which she loves -- requiring her to travel weekly, often flying long distances to meetings and enduring ongoing jetlag.
When you understand all the forms that stress takes, you begin to see that it is the root cause of most symptoms of illness. It's no surprise that while on vacation you usually feel pretty good -- all those nagging complaints clear right up.
Carpal tunnel syndrome, neck and back pain, pinched nerves arise from postural stresses related to our work and repetitive activities. We sit long hours at computers and desks, pick up children and lift heavy objects, hold the phone with our shoulder, and so on. Insomnia often arises after we have burned the candle at both ends for too long and when we work right up until bedtime or stay up beyond when we're tired. Digestive problems arise from overwork, tension and irregular eating. Anxiety and depression are among the most common symptoms arising from prolonged or excessive stress.
Instead of searching for the best herbs and supplements to combat stress, start with these simple (free) changes you can make in your life, and learn to take charge of your own health naturally.
Here are 8 of the most simple, straightforward ways you can beat the effects of stress:
- Get enough sleep. Go to bed when you feel tired and be sure to get 8 hours of sleep. If you find yourself protesting, "I can get by on 6 hours of sleep," note that you are kidding yourself into believing this. If you use medications to sleep, you need to ask yourself why. It is not natural to medicate ourselves to sleep, although pharmaceutical marketing would have us think otherwise. Just because the use of sleep medication is widespread, this does not make it natural, normal, or healthy.
- Drink enough water. Drink water throughout the day when you are thirsty. Coffee, tea, soda and juice are not substitutes for water.
- Breathe. This is one of the biggest stress-busters, your breath. Notice how you breathe shallowly when busy or tense. Take a deep breath in, allowing your whole torso to expand. Feel the breath expanding your ribcage and abdomen as you breathe in. Allow the air to flow all the way out. Repeat this several times and do it repeatedly throughout the day.
- Eat regularly and calmly. This is another big stress-buster. Choose whole, unprocessed foods. Eat at regular intervals, not waiting too long between meals. Chew your food and eat without having a meeting, working on the computer, reading or watching TV.
- Exercise. You may feel you don't have time to exercise, but you do. Even daily walking can help tremendously by moving the muscles, relaxing the breath, improving circulation, increasing lymphatic drainage and providing an enhanced sense of well-being. Look for opportunities to walk instead of taking the car, to take the stairs instead of the elevator, and to walk up and down escalators instead of just standing there! Better yet, get into a yoga class or join a gym.
- Have fun. Every human being needs fun, recreation and creative expression. Find out what you like to do for fun and add it into your schedule on a regular basis. Fun is not self-indulgent, it is essential to your health and wellness.
- Give thanks. Every day, remember what you are grateful for. Practice gratitude to keep yourself in touch with the bigger picture, the cycle of giving and receiving that is human life.
- Give something back. Out of gratitude flows giving. When we give, we tap into something greater than ourselves. Think about how you can give something back to others and the world around you. It can be as simple as a kind word of acknowledgment, volunteering for a charity, or giving financial support to those in need. Be creative, and give something every day.